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<description><![CDATA[<ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>The number of people with dementia in the UK - now 700,000 - will rise by a million to 1.7m by 2050</li></ul><br /> <ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>According to estimates, within 2 decades there will be a million people with dementia</li></ul><br />  <ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Fewer than one in four of those with dementia are accurately diagnosed</li></ul><br /> <ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>This year for the first time, there will be more pensioners than children in the UK</li></ul><br /> <ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'> Dementia affects one in five people over 80 years of age and one in 20 aged over 65 </li></ul><br /><br /><br />At the moment dementia costs Scotland £1.4 billion as 58,000 people there have dementia.  <br /><br />By 2030, the number of Americans with dementia is expected to more than double to 5.2 million, while those 65 and older with Alzheimer's is predicted to grow 50 percent, to 7.7 million.<br /><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2007 16:36:54 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<strong class='bbcode bold'>Assistive Technology</strong> is the name given to any product or service that enables people to maintain their independence.<br /><br />Assitive Technology ranges from very small pieces of equipment such as a door sensor to very high-tech solutions such as satelite-based navigation systems that will help to find someone if they are lost.<br /><br />It is important to consider the following issues when looking for the right device: <br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Any technology provided should be based on an individual assessment</li></ul><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>What works for one person may not work for another</li></ul><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Assistive Technology is most effective when combined with good care</li></ul>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 10:18:51 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<em class='bbcode italic'>Both the person with dementia and their carer may be eligible for some welfare benefits. A person with dementia may be entitled to claim Attendance Allowance (if over 65) or Disability Living Allowance (if under 65). They may also be entitled to exemption from council tax (contact your district council about this). Carers may be entitled to claim Carers Allowance. </em><br /><br /><em class='bbcode italic'>The welfare benefits system is complex, and it may be helpful to seek advice when making a claim. Your local Department of Work &amp; Pensions, the Citizens Advice Bureaux, Carers Support Workers or staff  from Adult Social Care can all assist with claiming benefits.</em><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 10:27:55 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<em class='bbcode italic'>If you lose mental capacity because of dementia, you will need someone else  to manage your legal, financial and health affairs. It is important to take appropriate steps as soon as a diagnosis has been confirmed, to plan for the future. There are a number of ways of making sure that your financial affairs can be managed  by someone you trust, including:</em><br /><em class='bbcode italic'>Benefits appointee.  A carer can be named as the person's appointee so that he/she can legally handle their income from benefits.  Contact the Department for Work and Pensions, who will arrange for an officer to come and visit.</em>  <br /><br /><em class='bbcode italic'>Enduring power of attorney (EPA) / Lasting power of attorney (LPA): currently you can make an 'enduring power of attorney', which means a person of your choosing will be able to manage your finances for you. From mid-2007, you will be able to make a 'lasting power of attorney'; this will enable you to choose a person to make decisions regarding your health and welfare, as well as your finances.</em><br />  <br /><em class='bbcode italic'>Receivership. if you have not made and EPA (or LPA) and you become mentally incapable of managing your financial affairs, it may be necessary to appoint a receiver to manage them. This is done through the court of protection, although if managing your financial affairs consists simply of managing your income from benefits, it may be done by appointeeship. </em>]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 10:31:29 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Accessing services and support at the right time can make a great difference to  the person with dementia and their family and friends.<br /><br />Their local authority has a duty to carry out a community care assessment to assess the personns needs and decide which services can be arranged to help meet their needs.<br /><br />Services can vary from-<br /><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Home care services</li></ul><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Day care services</li></ul><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Respite, residential and nursing care</li></ul><br /><ul class='bbcode'><li class='bbcode'>Equipment and adaptations</li></ul><br /><br />The financial situation of the person with dementia will be taken into account and they could be asked to contribute towards the service costs.<br /><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 10:48:49 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My mother used to wear Bi - focal glasses for reading watching TV etc. however over time she stopped reading as her memory started to fail.<br /><br />We never thought about her glasses until we realised she was having difficulty with stairs.<br /><br />Yes it was the Bi Focal part of the glassess causing her to not be able to judge the distances correctly.<br /><br />The real problem came with assessing her current level of eyesight to have new glasses made up.<br /><br />She was unable to read the standard eye test chart as she has lost the ability to read.<br /><br />Whilst the Optician did supply new glasses does anyone know how he could have measured her requirements?<br /><br />I never did ask how and maybe should have?]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2007 16:42:23 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<span style='color:#0066ff'><strong class='bbcode bold'>How do I become a host?</strong></span><br /><br />If you feel that you would like to volunteer some time being a host in the chat rooms or a moderator of the forums then please contact us.  <br /><br />You can contact us through the chat rooms when a host is online or by sending a personal message through this site to Pam S or by sending an email to information@pss.org.uk giving us a contact name, phone number or email address and we'll get back to you.<br /><br />]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2007 14:31:28 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Do policies generally cover any form of dementia?]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 16:08:48 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[i see there are some great training things going on up North.  Does anyone know of anything going on in the South (london-ish) way. This is where my parents are based, and i think my Dad would really benefit from a course in caring for people with Alzheimers.<br />Seems to me that services in the North are much better?<br /><br />Suzanna]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 22:19:20 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[According to the <a class='bbcode' href='http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/2284537.stm' >BBC</a>  there are people with Alzheimer's being tagged to keep track of them in a care home. <br /><br />Does this infringe civil liberties? Are there benefits for the carers? Is it just cost cutting?<br /><br />]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
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<description><![CDATA[<strong class='bbcode bold'>What actually is dementia?</strong><br /><br />By this I mean is it restricted to a particular neurological condition or is it broad enough to cover similar symptoms but associateed with other diseases?]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2007 13:25:32 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Malcolm Wicks, the Science Minister, this week highlighted how satellite technology often used for car navigation, could be helpful for people with dementia. This led to a press outcry agianst monitoring and a police state. However, people with dementia get very distressed if they get lost, as do their relatives . This often leads to them being kept at home behind locked doors or even admitted to care homes for their safety. Yet some people really value the chance to go out on their own knowing that if they get lost they can be found, if technology can allow them to do this, can it be wrong?]]></description>
<author>robin.currie@nospam.com (Robin)</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2007 08:54:53 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size:14px'><span style='color:#0066ff'><strong class='bbcode bold'>AddonChat</strong></span></span><br /><br />The chat rooms are provided by addonchat.com They do a variety of different packages from simple free ones through to the enterprise edition which we use on the Dementia cafe.<br /><br />It is written in Javascript to make it as compatible as possible with many different browsers and computers and connects to the addonchat servers in the US.<br /><br />The IT staff at PSS have written the interface to enable it to integrate with the content management system used on this site (which is e107 by the way).<br />]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2007 10:25:40 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size:14px'><span style='color:#0066ff'><strong class='bbcode bold'>e107</strong></span></span><br /><br />The Content Management System used on this site is the opensource CMS called  <a class='bbcode' href='http://www.e107.org' >e107</a>. It is one of the most popular systems used on the web. <br /><br />A content management system allows non technical people to create dynamic web sites with the minimum of internet development training. It also uses a number of plugins (add on programs) such as the FAQ system to further enhance the operation of the site. <br /><br />For more information on e107 visit their site. For information on the integration between the chat room and the e107 cms register here and send a PM to Barry]]></description>
<author>baz99@nospam.com (Barry)</author>
<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2007 10:31:26 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[The Alzheimers Society is today - Friday 27th April 2007 submitting to the high court the serious flaws in the way the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE) reached its decision to restrict access to dementia drugs on the NHS.<br /><br />Neil Hunt, chief executive of the Alzheimers Society says,<br />'The evidence we are presenting today highlights serious flaws in the process NICE have used.  The decision is a blow for millions of people already devasted by Alzheimers disease.  We have been left with no choice but to champion the rights of people with dementia and their carers in the high court.'<br /><br />Campaigners are now waiting for a court date for arguments to be heard.<br /><br />Should access to dementia drugs be restricted on the NHS?]]></description>
<author>pam.stopforth@nospam.com (Pam S)</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 16:33:16 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Can keeping the mind busy and occupied restore memories lost to dementia? <br /><br />Scientists in the USA believe that mental stimulation along with drug treatments may help people with dementia, regain some of their lost memories. <br /><br />For more information:  <a class='bbcode' href='http://www.news-medical.net/?id=24330' >www.news-medical.net/?id=24330</a> <br /><br />]]></description>
<author>erica.danna@nospam.com (Erica)</author>
<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2007 14:03:15 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi There<br />I am new to this but I was just wondering if anyone out there has any experience of direct payments. I presently use PSS for 4 hours care a week for my dad. Sadly my LA dont use <br />PSS. I therefore will have to go down the direct payment route and use the service of my choice. I may also have to employ someone for night time care in the evening. Any info would be gratefully received.<br />A.]]></description>
<author>halliwellrosie@nospam.com (desperatedan)</author>
<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2007 19:01:20 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[HI There<br />Does anybody have any information regarding stair lifts or through celing lifts. My dad has dementia and lives with mum who manages him at the moment. He is becoming more frail and needs help getting up stairs . Ot suggest through floor lift not too sure if this will frighten him as any change in the house disorientates him.<br />What do you think.<br />Sarah]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2007 17:57:17 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My grandmother is suffering all the symptoms of dementia and is in respite at the moment after a spell in hostpital.  What is concerning me is her head is lolled forward and she cant hold it up it looks very uncomfortable and is causing us concern as she has no known medical condition that may be causing this.  She has had sore knecks and wore a neck brace every now and again but noone seems to be doing anything about it. Can anyone shed any light on this for me.<br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 23:09:32 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[HI i joined today after hearing about this site on the radio, i am 54 and live in wirral. My dad has dementia, although he is catered for in most ways, he is so lonely, as he lives alone. Dr Ferran says he should be stimulated, are there places he could go to? It's difficult for me as he no longer likes shopping and you cant go to the pics! i do take him for a drive, actually took him to Fort Perchrock on Sat, lots of stairs not adviseable, well we try. Anyway lets hope this site becomes active again. i will talk to anybody HA HA. Wait in anticipation,,,,,<br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 15:38:23 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi,<br /><br />My name is Peter, I live in Liverpool, and I care for my 60 year old  wife Doreen, who was diagnosed with PPA, a form of Fronto Temporal Dementia, in Nov 2002. I just heard this site mentioned on Radio Merseyside today 17th January 2007.<br /><br />I would welcome any further communication with carers of FTD sufferers in the the Merseyside area, or UK.<br /><br />Thank you for accepting my registration,<br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />Peter Moore.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 11:38:24 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[May I commend you on your helpful site.<br />Alzheimer's talking point is hosted by the Alzheimer's Society,and supported by volunteer moderators of which there are 8.<br />TP was born in March 2003 and is 5 years old on the 3rd of April this year.<br />TP is an online community for people suffering with dementia and their carers.<br />Questions can be asked and where possible answers given by others who have experienced problems similar to the questioner.We try to cover 24 hours when ever possible.<br />There are at present 6776 members from around the world and 729 active members.<br />I personally have been a carer for 13 + years until my wife died in July 2007 so have gained a great deal of experience about the "Dementia Journey".Which can benifit others.<br />We hope that you will find time to visit our TP family.<br />Best wishes in you venture<br />Norman<br />]]></description>
<author>nhowell379@nospam.com (norman)</author>
<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 14:31:13 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Frustration of governing authorities in control of 'who wins' and 'who loses.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 13:42:20 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Does anyone know if there are online, or downloads of mental exercises for dementia?<br /><br />maybe some kids' mental games could also be used for dementia? do you know where i can find them?<br /><br />thanx!<br /><br /><br />]]></description>
<author>anna@nospam.com (Annoula)</author>
<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 12:44:40 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hello everybody,<br />I hope you dont mind me paying you all a visit. I read about the cafe in community care I think a few months ago. I am a health care student and am keen to learn as much as I can about dementia as it is something that I am studying as part of my course. I am also very keen to lean about the perspective of the carer.<br /><br /><br />Just to let you all know I am a mum and 2 of my children have autisum so for a number of years I have played the part of the carer and can relate in some ways to your situations.<br />Please excuse my dreadful spelling and grammer I am Dyslexia and have not manage dto get my softwear up and running yet ( on the list of things to do).<br /><br />I look forward to getting to know you all.<br />Take care<br />Vxx<br /><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 16:16:04 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Dear All,<br /><br />Welcome to the new look PSS Dementa Centre website!<br/><br/>If you have previously used the website and are looking for the Dementia Café, please click on the Dementia Café logo on the right of the page. From here you will be shown two options:- 'Message Boards', and 'Online Support'.<br/><br/>Clicking on the 'Message Boards' will take you to the forums page where you can post messages and read the information posted by other users.<br/><br/>Clicking on the 'Online Support' will take you to the chat facility where you can 'talk' on-line to other Dementia Centre website users and hosts.<br/><br/>If you are having problems finding your way around the website, or if you have any suggestions for improvement, please post a reply to this message and we'll get back to you as soon as we can. In the meantime, please have a look at the 'Information' section of the website where we have a section containing information on how to use this website.<br/><br/>There are further improvements planned for the website in the coming months, so please check back often to see what we've been doing!<br/><br/>Hope you enjoy the new website and look forward to hearing from you.<br/><br/>Steve - PSS Development Team.<br/><br/>]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[Dear All,<br /><br />Welcome to the new look PSS Dementa Centre website!<br/><br/>If you have previously used the website and are looking for the Dementia Café, please click on the Dementia Café logo on the right of the page. From here you will be shown two options:- 'Message Boards', and 'Online Support'.<br/><br/>Clicking on the 'Message Boards' will take you to the forums page where you can post messages and read the information posted by other users.<br/><br/>Clicking on the 'Online Support' will take you to the chat facility where you can 'talk' on-line to other Dementia Centre website users and hosts.<br/><br/>If you are having problems finding your way around the website, or if you have any suggestions for improvement, please post a reply to this message and we'll get back to you as soon as we can. In the meantime, please have a look at the 'Information' section of the website where we have a section containing information on how to use this website.<br/><br/>There are further improvements planned for the website in the coming months, so please check back often to see what we've been doing!<br/><br/>Hope you enjoy the new website and look forward to hearing from you.<br/><br/>Steve - PSS Development Team.<br/><br/>]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[<strong class='bbcode bold'>WANTED!<br />People with dementia involved in trying to make a change</strong><span style='color:#3333cc'></span><br /><br />The Bradford Dementia Group at Bradford University are looking for 25 people across the UK who are interested in bringing about change or who speak out or campaign on issues which matter to them. <br /><br />We are looking for a variety of people: it may be that you are involved in community events, or that you write letters to newspapers, sign petitions or speak out in public. Maybe you keep a ‘blog’, have volunteered your skills to get better services or are involved in campaigns on a local or national level.<br /><br />Whatever your level of involvement, we are interested in finding out why you get involved and how your activities affect you, your family and your life in general. The project will take place from August 2009.	<br /><br />To volunteer you need to <br />-	Have a dementia diagnosis<br />-	Be interested in changing things, speaking out or campaigning <br />-	Be prepared to talk to a researcher<br />-	Be prepared to keep a diary for up to one month; you can keep a written, photo or audio diary - whichever suits you best<br /><br />We are also looking for 5 people with dementia who are interested in ‘piloting’ the materials we are going to use to make sure we have got them right. The pilot will last 2 weeks and will take place in June 2009.<br /><br />If you are interested in finding out more please email us on socialchange*bradford.ac.uk (when emailing please change the * for an @. @ sign removed for this posting to stop spam) .<br />or ring EJ on 01274 236 494    or  Ruth on 01274 236 468<br /><br />]]></description>
<author>socialchange@nospam.com (socialchange)</author>
<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 16:46:01 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi,<br /><br />Just thought I'd give everyone a little bit of info concerning the Assistive Technology Catalogue and where it is on the new website.<br /><br />If you're looking to download the catalogue of assistive technology products, it can be found by clicking on the 'Information' icon which looks like this, - <img src="http://www.dementiacentre.com/images/custom/information_icon_28.png" title="This is the Information icon. It is for display  purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." alt="This is the Information icon. It is for display purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." />, but with an orange line around the border. You should then click on the 'Downloads' icon which looks ike this, - <img src="http://www.dementiacentre.com/images/custom/download_icon_28.png" title="This is the Downloads icon. It is for display purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." alt="This is the Downloads icon. It is for display purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." /> , but with an orange line around the border . You will then be shown a list of downloads to choose from. Click on the link for the Assistive Technology Catalogue to download it.<br /><br />Alternatively, if you are on the 'Home' page, click on the 'Memory Aids' icon which looks like this, - <img src="http://www.dementiacentre.com/images/custom/dev_centre_icon_28.png" title="This is the Memory Aids icon. It is for display purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." alt="This is the Memory Aids icon. It is for display purposes only. There is no link here. Please read the post for details." />, but with an orange line around the border. You then need to click on the link to download the Assistive Technology Catalogue.<br /><br />Hope this helps !<br /><br />Steve.<br /><br />]]></description>
<author>steve.murray@nospam.com (Steve_M)</author>
<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 20:07:12 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Here at PSS, we have started to produce our own design of Dementia signage that you can download from this website for free, and print on A4 sized paper to use around the home. Please go to the 'Home' page and click on the link for 'Memory Aids' for more information.<br /><br />There are a limited number available at the moment but please check back often as we will be releasing new designs all the time. If you have any suggestions, please let us know using the 'Contact Us' link.<br /><br />We hope you find them useful!<br />Steve.]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi Everyone,<br />                    I understand that everyone is different when it comes to computers, and although we have tried to include as much information as possible on using the website, there will still be people who need to know more !<br /><br />If there's some information that you need and you can't find it on the website, please send us an email by clicking on the 'Contact Us' icon in the 'Quick Links' menu. Then click on the email address to send an email, and let us know what you need and we'll do our best to help.<br /><br />Thanks !<br /><br />Steve.]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi Everyone,<br />                    In case you haven't noticed......<br /><br />With the new design of the website, we've also introduced a new service - A Support Line.<br /><br />The support line is staffed by trained councillors from 7pm - 9pm on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Outside of these times, there will be a 24-hour answer phone so you can leave a message. The councillors are alerted when a message is left, and will get back to you at the next opportunity.<br /><br />The Support Line is for everyone, and you don't need to have a problem to call. The councillors would love to hear your GOOD stories in addition to helping with any problems you are having. <br /><br />For all the details of the Support Line, please click on the picture of the telephone to the left of your screen.<br /><br />So whatever situation you are in, if you'd like a chat with one of our councillors, please give them a call. The number is - <strong class='bbcode bold'>0800 999 2015.</strong> <br /><br />They're looking forward to talking with you !<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />Steve.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 21:06:34 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi.  I think my 87yr old mother is beginning to show signs of dementia.  She is very forgetful with her short term memory.  However, what is concerning me most is the fact that every morning (and sometimes through the night) she is very shakey,confused, unmotivated, worries about clothes, wont stay on her own at night, but she improves by mid morning and sometimes earlier.  Is this normal?  Is it an early morning thing? Or should I be looking for another reason?  Please help me its very frustrating and upsetting as i go to work and dont like leaving her on her own but when I ring her from work she is fine.]]></description>
<author>parrypamela@nospam.com (pam)</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:12:22 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi my mum has been diagnosed with vascular dementia She  is only 61 and has gone into a deep depression. Would love to go on holiday but is nervous about going on her own as she is single. Any suggestions as she is such an attractive proud lady that hasny yet lost  her dignity just her independence.]]></description>
<author>emma.benton@nospam.com (emma benton)</author>
<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 21:51:34 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Although without a definite diagnosis my daughter is 22 and has dmentia symptoms. There doesn't seem to be much support apart from family and I wonder how this can be changed for all dementia sufferers. How do we raise awareness as it is a bit of a taboo subject as it isn't such a clear cut illness as cancer yet just as devastating. Any ideas? <br />How do we reduce long waiting times for diagnosis and treatment to bring it in line with other illnesses?]]></description>
<author>annie.sheds@nospam.com (anne sheds)</author>
<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 20:21:10 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia 3 years ago and it is becoming more and more diffiult to deal with her behaviour.  Any tips?]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:17:24 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone.  I could do with some advice on the following:<br />My aunt is 90 and lives on her own.  Her dementia has worsened drastically over the past year, (short term memory and now long term) but is just about able to put a stew together, although she keeps burning the pans.  She has no interesty in personal hygeine and spends most of her time in an armchair.<br />Her son and daughter-in-law (in their 60's) call in once a week for one hour to bring shopping and run a vacuum cleaner round the house.  The son also pops in daily for 5 minutes.<br />I have tried to address the problems she faces with the family, but (and I know this sounds awful) they do not seem to have the intelligence to understand the severity of the situation.  I do not feel able to interfere and organise help/support for her, but am obviously very worried.  I have Multiple Sclerosis and am finding it difficult to visit her every day, which I do to ease my own concience, because I love this lady dearly.<br />I would appreciate any advice.<br />Thank you<br />Margaret]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 19:08:57 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My Dad was diagnosed about a year ago and moved in with myself and my family in June. He is not adjusting well and I am questioning if I have done the right thing. He is paranoid and doesn't trust me and I am finding this devastating to deal with. He seems so afraid and nothing I say seems to reassure him that I love him and will look after him. I don't know where to turn and am so very fearful of what is ahead for us. My Father and I have always been close and this man who has moved into my house is nothing like the Dad I know. It's like an imposter is in his body.<br />Karen]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:00:05 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My mother certainy has some of the symptons of dementia. In particular she suffers from what I can only describe as panic attacks when she gets very tearful and thinks something dreadful is going to happen to her, but can't be specific. She only calms down when I, her son, see her, orspeak to her on the phone. She is being well cared for <strong class='bbcode bold'></strong>in her care home but my wife and I get up to 15 calls a day from her, sometimes at night, when she is very distressed. I am wondering whether there is any medication which might help her.]]></description>
<author>terry.cudbird@nospam.com (Peter)</author>
<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 16:31:35 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hello All<br /><br />I discovered this forum while looking up symptoms of Dementia......................!  The problem is, Im not sure my Mum has dementia, but the family history suggests that it could well be.<br /><br />I have tried to talk to my Dad and he dismissed it and said that she's fine.  I know my Mum so well, she is or was my best friend in the whole world.<br /><br />She is 66 years old at the moment.  Her oldest sister was 70 when diagnosed and recently passed away. Not from dementia though.  My grandma died at 94 having suffered from Dementia for 24 years<br /><br />I just don't know where to turn.  I have just spoken to Mum and she keeps having bouts of depression, but unlike previous low points, her memory is really bad.  I suggested that she went to see her favorite GP and she said that she hadn't been to the Doctors for about 2 years......which I know isnt correct.  We recently went to a funeral  of a famliy friend and when we were leaving she asked me if I had seen the person who had died and said 'Oh I didnt say good bye to Keith'.....! Keith was the deceased.....<br /><br />I think I have joined this forum to gain a little knowledge about dementia and to contact people who are going throught similar situations.<br /><br />bye for now<br />Sarah x<br /><br />]]></description>
<author>sarah.whitehurst@nospam.com (Worriedaboutmum)</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 13:34:57 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Are there any group that caters for professionals just like me so that we can set up some form of help help and support. The problems I am going through and also the pressure this causes to the love ones is great.]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[My 88 year old mum has been victim of AD since 20001. It's now very difficult to persuade her to eat. She exists on Forticrem Yoghurts. She also now goes through harrowing periods of tormented agitation. Do you think a change of medication may help? She currently takes Trazadone. Thanks.<br /><br />I have been consulting as many people as possible and also tried for expert advices in places like<br />http://www.caring.com/questions/alzheimers-nutrition<br />I am here for some open ended discussions so I can get more suggestions.<br /><br />Thanks you]]></description>
<author>sharron.livingston1@nospam.com (sharronlivingst)</author>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 13:30:52 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Most of us have enough problems taking care of our day to day needs but most given entails filling forms which are beyond us. The difficulty I and many others have is that on the one hand those in authorty recognise our problems and I am grateful but than they expect you to fill in forms (plural). Does it not registrers  that we have problems,<br /><br />I have two sets of forms to fill but it is almost three weeks and despite many attempts am unable to fil.]]></description>
<author>dr.badsha@nospam.com (Kartar Badsha)</author>
<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:26:25 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Mum lives in a dementia facility which is very good. I go twice a week to spend a couple of "quality time" hours with her. In summer I took her out in her wheelchair, but now it's cold I'm taking items in that we can work with together. After some experimentation of what does and doesn't work with her, I find she cannot do anything creative or abstract. She most succeeds with recognisable images that she can copy ,using magnetic coloured pieces, or by laying them on top of a template picture.   When I took a little puzzle that appeared 3D (butterflies that seemed to "fly") she couldn't identify the pictures at all. It was as if her brain could not process the 3D.   I've just been to ToysRUs and found some fuzzy felt items that we can assemble in various ways. I'm careful not to patronise her, and I find she doesn't realise they are for children. She enjoys these things, and I also bought a small Bingo game which I shall try on Sunday!     Any comments/advice on what dementia patients' brains can and cannot process?  I am finding it a steep learning curve......from MrsMD.  PS. she is still able to play simple piano pieces, albeit haltingly!]]></description>
<author>marcelle.d@nospam.com (MrsMD)</author>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi There,<br />I just wondered if there is any companies that produce a watch, that you can record a message on, other than one  that just speaks the time.<br />I have searched on the internet but have not had any luck.<br />Thanks]]></description>
<author>hayleysimmons@nospam.com (tammy)</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 13:13:50 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi There,<br />I just wondered if anyone had any information on companies that sell watches, that you are able to record a message onto other than just the time!!<br />I have searched on the internet but I am struggling. I need to be able to record a reminder message on.<br />I appreciate any advice!<br />Many thanks,<br />Tammy<br /><br />]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[Hello all<br /><br />I hope you don’t mind me posting here, but we are running an interesting online pilot community for people who care for those with Dementia.  This is nothing to do with sales or marketing – I just thought it might be of interest to some of you.<br /><br />The aim is to provide an environment for carers to be able to share thoughts and ideas, pick up useful information and debate issues of concern with each other and also with a range of experts.  The resource is being supported by Bupa, who provide services for people with dementia and their carers, and it will also help them to improve these services and to help them to represent the interests of people living with dementia, their families and carers more effectively.  The community is being run by an independent company called Caucus that builds and manages online communities.<br /><br />We are looking for around 250 people to join in the community in the first instance, as we have limited space at the moment (although the idea will be to eventually open it up to a much wider audience).  We are particularly interested in hearing from those whose relatives are not in care homes, or are in care homes other than Bupa’s, as this is the audience that we would really like to hear from, and with whom we are not currently consulting.  The idea is not to take people away from any existing forums or discussion boards that they may be a member of, and actually we would be happy for you to share anything of interest in the Bupa community with anybody here (as long as it is not personal information about other people).  It is a free resource that we hope you will find very useful.<br /><br />If you are interested in joining this community, and you live in the UK, then please click on the following link and complete the short survey.  <br /><br />https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XPX3H63<br /><br />The details we collect will only be used to understand what the community demographic profile is like, and we will only ever contact you about the community.  Once you have completed the short survey, we will be in touch within a few days to provide you with your login and password.  In the case that the community becomes oversubscribed, we will keep a reserve list in the case of any dropout. <br /><br />If you have any questions or queries, please don’t hesitate to contact me at dementiacarers@caucusworld.com or on 020 7861 3243.  I’m a real person and happy to answer any questions!<br /><br />Thanks<br />Graham<br /><br />About Bupa and their work on dementia<br />To advance Bupa’s commitment to helping people with dementia and their supporters and carers to live well, Bupa and the Alzheimer’s Society have united to improve the lives of people with dementia and officially marked their joint commitment to the shared goal of improving the quality of care for people living with dementia by signing a memorandum of understanding. This partnership offers opportunities to learn, work together on new projects, raise the bar in dementia care and take the vision of living well with dementia forward.<br /><br />Your privacy<br />The community is being hosted by an independent research company, Caucus, and for your assurance, at no point will anybody try to sell you anything, nor will your personal details be passed on nor used for any purpose other than understanding what types of people are taking part in the community (this is useful to know when we look at what kinds of things you are telling us about your experiences).  Also, you do not need to use your name in the community – you can choose a ‘screen name’ and remain anonymous if you prefer.<br />]]></description>
<author>dementiacarers@nospam.com (Dementia Carers)</author>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 16:04:37 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[my dad has had dementia for about 6 mths and im still finding it hard to deal with this because i feel i dont know what im supposed to do i also feel sorry for my mum because she has to do everything and she has high blood pressure sometimes i feel my ded just doesnt want to do anything so its left to my mum. i know its not his fault but im finding it hard]]></description>
<author>zoe.smith98@nospam.com (smith)</author>
<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 16:47:48 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[hi, my dads in hospital at the moment, im going through the biggest heartache since my mum died, the ward sister has been unimaginingly cruel to me my son and father, i really dont know where to turn as we are the main carers for dad, so much has happened yet nothing explained, we were just told he has changes in his head scan but that could be because he moved,  dementia was mentioned but never explained, my dad keept calling out for help was left to his own devices and had a very nasty fall banging his head hitting hospital door, the ward sister rang and said your dads fallen over again he has a bump the size of an egg, when we got there it was the size of a tennis ball!, a few more things happened, the nurse kept saying hes very confused, but everytime we were there he was ok, forgetful at times but just to us it seemed same dad/ grandad but maybe  just drained from being ill in hospital, we didnt question the ward nurse as she wasnt the most approachable person and we didnt want to upset anyone because we had to leave dad there, we went to see dad and he had wee around his feet on the floor, he told us it had been there for over a hour, something the lady who served the food said was true, and that he had fallen and had been ignored, i just wanted to get dad home, where i thought i would be able to look after him. new years eve i went to see dad and spoke to the said nurse and basically had it out with her in front of the doctor, ive never met such a rude uncaring person in all my life, next thing i know shes back in the room telling me that dad can come home next day just needs a blood transfusion as something was a bit low, as long as i was prepared to look after him until a care package was arranged on the monday, i said i would clean him etc i then said but if hes not well enough to come home then obviously i would wait, she said no its just the care package, he wasn't assesed nothing, she told me to come pick him up next day, i said we had no wheel chair and she arranged transport, dad arrived to mine in a dirty nappy he had loose stools, i cleaned him up in the bathroom with the help of my son, bless him he done it again and we were very worried about him he kept shouting help help, then he had a bit of dinner and i gave him his tablets he calmed down but didn't look good, we didnt know what to do so ambulance come they suggested he come back, we then sat in a&amp;e until dad was put the acute medical ward, they were very nice there and said they didnt think dad should of come out but that i had discharged him!!! i was very upset i would never have done that, they said i must complain to pals, and said sorry for our treatment, i said it wasnt your fault its mine for being so nieve, they should of put dad back on that ward but because of our situation they put him on another ward, where he is know until monday when we will see the social worker, there very nice and although they were surgical ward explained more to me about dads just diagnosed dementia, and how he should not have just come home, im very upset  we love dad very much, i have no partner its just me and my 20 yr old son here, we feel very alone and confused and just  helpless, i cant stop crying. i cant believe that ward sister would say i discharged him and send him home, fully knowing that we had no idea what to expect! and even though there is the noroviris on the ward, i dont know what to do.<br /><br />kind regards  jacquie]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 10:59:44 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My mum is 85 and has multi infarct dementia. She gets very agitated and frightened and angry about her memory loss and failing physical abilities. Sometimes she is aggressive, both verbally and physically. So, i asked my GP for something to calm her as these episodes can go on for hours and frequently happen in the evening when i am done in and ready for a rest.<br /><br />My GP gave me Zyprexa 2.5mg otherwise known as Olanzapine. I gave one to my Mum and it had no effect so the next time she became distressed and agitated I gave her another one. This time the effects were incredible. From a woman who could hardly walk she became one who could march off, take herself to the loo, ban me from helping her saying she wanted privacy. She became very hyper indeed, constant talking and movement. This went on for several hours. her memory came back and she was able to understand a discussion programme on the TV.<br /><br />Three days later she is still paranoid and somewhat psychoatic as well as the usual dementia behaviour.<br /> I have looked it up on the internet and it is usually used for people with manic depression and bi-polar conditions. <br /><br />Has anyone else had any problems with this drug? My District Nurse says not to use it again which i will not. Has anyone found a drug that gently calm a demented person down. I do use kalms and passiflora which seem to have some effect.<br /><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:44:44 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[My mother is in a dementia unit assessment ward at an nhs facility and has been prescribed trazodone because she is unsettled at night and out of bed a lot.  She has become like a zombe and cannot walk by herself after having this drug.  She has gone from being a lively chatty gentle lovely person to one who has no personality and cannot walk by herself after taking it.  Anyone else experienced this?]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 21:30:12 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[hi - i am new to this type of communication and i want to see if people out there can offer advise for me and my family who are trying to deal with my aunties diagnosis of dementia. We are a close family and my aunty lives on her own with my mother as her primary carer. She has only recently become more aggresive and her memory has become worse. She has always been looked after by my mother but things have come to a head this weekend after my aunty became very abusive and aggressive towards my mother. <br />i want to know if this is normal as we are now considering what action to take. we have social services involed and are waiting for them to visit on monday before finding out what support they can offer my mother and family in the hope that my aunt can keep her independance.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 21:00:59 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[An elderly relation has recently been admitted to a care home. <br /><br />She suffers from dementia - the main syptom at present seems to be her complete inability to communicate. She may understand (and I think she knows who I am) but has no means of coherently communicating back, so it impossible to know if she understands what is being said to  her and, of course,  she is unable to say what she wants or requires.<br /><br />What practical assistance can I give which will help her during these visits?<br /><br /> For example, would it help to take along family photos of when she was younger (with pictures of other members of the family?) Would it be helpful to play games? -if so, which do you suggest?<br /><br />Any other suggestions would be most welcome!]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:55:48 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi,<br /><br />My name is Mel Palachandran.  I am currently in my final undergraduate year of studying Psychology at the University of Liverpool.  As part of my dissertation, I am interested in exploring how the perceptions of carers of Alzheimer’s patients towards healthcare professionals influences the caregiving experience. Therefore, I would like to speak to carers who are willing to share their personal experiences with the healthcare system in the UK and their caregiving experience in general. <br /><br />The purpose of the study is to identify the difficulties carers currently experience in their role as mediator and advocate for their loved one whilst dealing with the healthcare system.  By understanding the nature of this complex interaction and by focusing on ways of strengthening this relationship specifically in the context of Alzheimer’s disease, it may be possible to alleviate feelings of caregiving burden, thereby improving the quality of life of carers and subsequently care-recipients.  The findings of the research will hopefully raise the awareness of healthcare professionals to the importance of considering the holistic needs of both patients and their carers, in addition to addressing the more obvious health or behavioural problems.  <br /><br />Participation in the research is completely voluntary and strictly confidential. If you are interested in taking part please contact me for further information.<br /><br />Miss Palavathani (Mel) Palachandran<br />Tel: 07545 553601<br />Email: p.palachandran@student.liverpool.ac.uk<br />]]></description>
<author>p.palachandran@nospam.com (melaniep88)</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 21:16:51 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi, I'm new to this! <br />My mum has been in a nursing home for the past year. She has dementia. 2 weeks ago she broke her hip, has since had a half hip replacement and is now about to go back to the nursing home. I want to find a new home for her as I'm not happy with the one she currently lives in. Please help!]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 22:47:02 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hello my name is sheila i live in Nottingham. I am the carer of my Mother who is aged 86, she lives independently in a warden adied flat and as yet can cope quite well, apart from she has lost the ability to understand how the Microwave works and also the fridge freezer.I did try at one stage to get her to eat those ready meals delivered to your door from Adult Services ( use to be meals on wheels) and she did enjoy them and was putting on weight, then as the illness became more apparent she would argue with me that she did not like them and wanted to go back to frozen meals, of course i had to let her have her way or otherwise all hell would have broken loose. I have on serveral times been on the recieveing end of mums tongue she can be quite hurtful at times. I have been to the Dementia group meeting and did at the time find them to help. But now i am back in the real world leaving mum  in her fantasy one. Its hard work and i support all of you that have to endure this bad illness.<br /><br />Take care.<br />kind regards<br /><br />sheila]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 13:34:42 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Do you think that the advert`s on TV regarding dementia will get the public to be more aware of folk who are showing signs of having the illness ?... Do you really think that it will make a difference as to how people percieve this illness ?<br /><br />sheila]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:09:03 -0500</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi,<br /><br />My name is Mel Palachandran. I am currently in my final undergraduate year of studying Psychology at the University of Liverpool. As part of my dissertation, I am interested in exploring how the perceptions of carers of Alzheimer’s patients towards healthcare professionals influences the caregiving experience. Therefore, I would like to speak to carers who are willing to share their personal experiences with the healthcare system in the UK and their caregiving experience in general. <br /><br />The purpose of the study is to identify the difficulties carers currently experience in their role as mediator and advocate for their loved one whilst dealing with the healthcare system. By understanding the nature of this complex interaction and by focusing on ways of strengthening this relationship specifically in the context of Alzheimer’s disease, it may be possible to alleviate feelings of caregiving burden, thereby improving the quality of life of carers and subsequently care-recipients. The findings of the research will hopefully raise the awareness of healthcare professionals to the importance of considering the holistic needs of both patients and their carers, in addition to addressing the more obvious health or behavioural problems. <br /><br />Participation in the research is completely voluntary and strictly confidential. If you are interested in taking part please contact me for further information.<br /><br />Miss Palavathani (Mel) Palachandran<br />Tel: 07545 553601<br />Email: p.palachandran@student.liverpool.ac.uk]]></description>
<author>p.palachandran@nospam.com (melaniep88)</author>
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<description><![CDATA[My husband is at the end of his tether....he was appointed Lasting Power of Attorney for his mother who was admitted to a secure dementia unit in March 2010.   However, he now finds that his mother's GP will not discuss any health details unless my husband obtains a letter from a lawyer requesting such information.    What on earth is the point of spending money on obtaining an LPAC (obtained when his mother had mental capacity) if now,  when information is needed to plan for her further care, he cannot do so unless he pays AGAIN for a solicitor to back up the request??    It appears that the whole situation is a money making exercise - please could someone reassure us that this is not the case......]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 13:27:01 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[I must thank the posters who posted some 9 replies in answer to my Lasting Power of Attorney problem........however, I cannot see these replies!!   When I go to the list of subjects, it states that there have been 9 replies - however, the actual board shows no replies.........I am beginning to suspect that I am going down the dementia path myself......Help!!!!!]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi I wana brain desies]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 10:55:55 -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Im so glad I came across this site. We have just changed the category of our care home to nursing home for dementia and Ive been looking for dementia signage. Your signs are fantastic and have been very successful in our home. Is it possible to please request a quiet room sign in yellow and a bedroom sign in yellow?<br /><br />]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 22:46:19 -0400</pubDate>
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